Personal space
FreeTalk it through first.
Vent, untangle what you actually feel, and work out what you want to say before you say it.
You and Inetta. That’s it.
An AI mediator for couples, families and friends
On both your sides.
Powered by Conflict Intelligence™Inetta listens to each of you first, privately, then helps you meet in the middle.
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Both sides
Sam
You turned the heat down again. I’m wearing a coat. Indoors.
Jordan
I’m roasting. And you changed it back without asking me.
Inetta
so one of you is cold, and one of you felt skipped over. both real. can we find a number you can both live with?
Dana
Third night in a row, the dishes are just sitting in the sink.
Theo
I said I’d do them in the morning. Why is that never enough?
Inetta
i don’t think this is about the dishes. dana, you want a night off from keeping track. theo, you want your word to count.
Priya
You booked the cabin before anyone agreed on a budget.
Mateo
Nobody answered the group chat for two weeks. Someone had to.
Inetta
sounds like one of you felt left out, and one of you felt left holding the whole trip. how do you split the planning next time?
Noor
You were on your phone through the whole dinner.
Alex
I was booking the place you said you wanted to go.
Inetta
okay, pause. noor, you wanted to feel noticed. alex, you were trying to show you noticed. can you tell each other that?
How it works
Conflict Intelligence™. it’s a thing now.
Conflict Intelligence™ (CI) is how Inetta hears a fight: both sides, the real thing underneath, and words that land.
IQ, EQ… CI. The skill nobody teaches you, built into Inetta. No homework, no worksheets, no picking sides.
Hears both sides.
Each of you tells Inetta your side in your own words, in your personal space or together in a shared one. Neither side gets more airtime.
Finds the actual thing.
The dishes are never about the dishes. Inetta looks for what you both want underneath: to feel seen, to rest, to be a team.
Helps it land.
Inetta suggests words the other person can actually hear, and keeps the conversation even-handed.
Remembers what matters.
What comes up in a shared space carries into your personal space, so you don’t start from zero next time.
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Spaces
Start solo. bring them in later.
Every conversation happens in a space. Who’s in it decides what kind it is, and who can see it.
Couples space
PremiumTwo sides, one middle.
You, your person and Inetta in one thread. Inetta hears you both, then helps you meet in the middle.
You, 1 person and Inetta
Family space
PremiumPass the mic to me.
Parents, kids, siblings, step-everyone, the roommate who’s basically family. Everyone gets a turn, and everyone gets heard.
You, up to 11 people and Inetta
Friends space
PremiumClear the air, keep the group chat.
Best friends, roommates, the group chat that’s on fire. Say the hard thing out loud, with Inetta keeping it fair.
You, up to 11 people and Inetta
Starting a couples, family or friends space takes Premium. As long as someone in the space has it, everyone in it can keep talking.
See pricingWhy Inetta
Stop trying to win. start getting heard.
You’ve got doubts. Fair. Here’s the real talk.
Say this, not that
Say the hard thing. i’ll help it land soft.
Inetta helps you find words that say what you mean, without the part that starts round two.
Not this
More scripts on The Couch“You never listen.”
Say this“i don’t feel heard right now. can we try that again?”
Kind words
Notes from the middle.
Pricing
Free to start. premium when you’re ready.
Free
$0to start, and to stay
Your personal space, 15 messages every 30 days and your last 30 days of history.
- What is Conflict Intelligence™?
- It’s how Inetta hears a fight: both sides, the real thing underneath, and words that land. Inetta hears each of you out in your own words, finds what you both want underneath the fight, helps your words land, and remembers what matters for next time. It’s not therapy and it’s not a score. See how CI works
- Is this therapy?
- No. Inetta is an AI mediator, not a therapist, and it isn’t for emergencies or abuse. If you’re thinking about hurting yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, US). If someone is hurting, threatening or controlling you, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (US). Anywhere else, call your local emergency number.
- Who can see what I write?
- Your personal space is just you and Inetta. In a shared space, everyone in it sees the conversation, and their names always sit next to the space’s title. Inetta also remembers what matters from shared spaces in your personal space. The details are in our privacy policy.
- Do we both need to sign up?
- Not to start: your personal space is free and just for you. To talk together, start a couples, family or friends space and invite your people by email; they join with their own account. Starting a shared space takes Premium, inviting takes a confirmed email, and invitations last 14 days.
- What does it cost?
- Your personal space is free, with 15 messages every 30 days and your last 30 days of history. Premium adds couples, family and friends spaces, unlimited messages and your full history for $20 a month, or $200 a year ($16.67 a month). Cancel anytime. See pricing
- Is there an app?
- Yes, and no app store needed. Inetta installs straight from your browser on your phone, tablet or computer. On iPhone or iPad, tap Share, then Add to Home Screen; notifications only work once it’s there. Open Inetta
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